Made a saddle??? Gosh, he must be talented??? What a wonderful gift of
love, something made with his very own hands. Great! luv, u, lillian
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----- Original Message -----
From: <beav76@uswest.net>
To: <mol-cancer@lists.meds.com>
Sent: Tuesday, October 17, 2000 5:35 PM
Subject: Re: [MOL] Re: Beav/Peggy/Lil
> Thanks for the reply Peggy, my husband is optimistic and promises me
someday he will be
> whole again and able to have sex. What bothers me is he is so consumed
with his cancer
> that he rarely gives me a hug or a kiss or love you or nothing. Just
constant fight for
> a cure is all he dwells on. I try to remind him to think of other things
and lately he
> has been able to do some things he enjoys which is tooling leather. He
made me a saddle
> for my horse and something for me to have for the rest of my life. It is
beautiful and
> even though there are some places where I can see his hand was shaking I
just am
> overwhelmed by his love to do this for me because I know it physically
hurt to work on
> it and build it all from his wheelchair. I think he figured out how to
express his love
> through making the saddle. With tears in my eyes, I share this with you
all.....Beav
>
> Peggy L. Hall wrote:
>
> > Beav,
> >
> > Your comments were apropos. Unbelievable how sex worries my husband and
I never
> > give it a thought. Just having him alive and in the same room with me
is more than
> > enough "sex" for this gal for now. Docs got him on testosterone patch
and I keep
> > thinking if that damn thing ever kicks in maybe he'll give me something
to keep up.
> >
> > Peggy
> >
> > beav76@uswest.net wrote:
> >
> > > Lillian;
> > > I know that is alot of my husbands depression. He has told a few
times he
> > > doesn't feel like a whole man anymore. I know he has mentioned a few
times when
> > > I was running late out at the horse that he thinks I'm having an
affair. Then
> > > that hurts my feelings because it is the farthest thing from my mind
and I would
> > > think he would know how much I love him no matter what. I do have to
reassure
> > > him now and then. It seems it is a part of life that has to go on hold
for
> > > awhile. Sex has never been my main interest in life anyway. I have
known some
> > > women that couldn't sustain and would leave their husband. I can
certainly feel
> > > how it must be for the one who is sick.....Thanks for sharing this
> > > Lillian.....Love u....Beav
> > >
> > > Lillian wrote:
> > >
> > > > I truly believe that the sexual aspect of cancer has to be
devastating to
> > > > all and certainly can lend to serious depression. I have no answers
for
> > > > this. I keep searching the cyber hwy. for something with a lot of
meat to
> > > > it in regards to this. I have a feeling everyone is afraid to talk
about
> > > > one of the most natural God given gifts there is. I don't believe
Doctors
> > > > for the most part forewarn patients; which increases the patients
feelings
> > > > of aloneness;etc. This is a very serious subject. One day, I will
find the
> > > > right site. luv, u, lillian
> > > >
> > >
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