I for one feel very sorry for men. I say this because their whole life is
conditioned around their maleness. Then for everything to disappear on them
can well be equated with breast cancer and a mastectomy. No matter what is
said, the bottom line is "things just ain't the same". warmly, lillian
> Beav,
>
> Your comments were apropos. Unbelievable how sex worries my husband and I
never
> give it a thought. Just having him alive and in the same room with me is
more than
> enough "sex" for this gal for now. Docs got him on testosterone patch and
I keep
> thinking if that damn thing ever kicks in maybe he'll give me something to
keep up.
>
> Peggy
>
> beav76@uswest.net wrote:
>
> > Lillian;
> > I know that is alot of my husbands depression. He has told a few
times he
> > doesn't feel like a whole man anymore. I know he has mentioned a few
times when
> > I was running late out at the horse that he thinks I'm having an affair.
Then
> > that hurts my feelings because it is the farthest thing from my mind and
I would
> > think he would know how much I love him no matter what. I do have to
reassure
> > him now and then. It seems it is a part of life that has to go on hold
for
> > awhile. Sex has never been my main interest in life anyway. I have known
some
> > women that couldn't sustain and would leave their husband. I can
certainly feel
> > how it must be for the one who is sick.....Thanks for sharing this
> > Lillian.....Love u....Beav
> >
> > Lillian wrote:
> >
> > > I truly believe that the sexual aspect of cancer has to be devastating
to
> > > all and certainly can lend to serious depression. I have no answers
for
> > > this. I keep searching the cyber hwy. for something with a lot of
meat to
> > > it in regards to this. I have a feeling everyone is afraid to talk
about
> > > one of the most natural God given gifts there is. I don't believe
Doctors
> > > for the most part forewarn patients; which increases the patients
feelings
> > > of aloneness;etc. This is a very serious subject. One day, I will
find the
> > > right site. luv, u, lillian
> > >
> >
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