Beav,
Your comments were apropos. Unbelievable how sex worries my husband and I never
give it a thought. Just having him alive and in the same room with me is more than
enough "sex" for this gal for now. Docs got him on testosterone patch and I keep
thinking if that damn thing ever kicks in maybe he'll give me something to keep up.
Peggy
beav76@uswest.net wrote:
> Lillian;
> I know that is alot of my husbands depression. He has told a few times he
> doesn't feel like a whole man anymore. I know he has mentioned a few times when
> I was running late out at the horse that he thinks I'm having an affair. Then
> that hurts my feelings because it is the farthest thing from my mind and I would
> think he would know how much I love him no matter what. I do have to reassure
> him now and then. It seems it is a part of life that has to go on hold for
> awhile. Sex has never been my main interest in life anyway. I have known some
> women that couldn't sustain and would leave their husband. I can certainly feel
> how it must be for the one who is sick.....Thanks for sharing this
> Lillian.....Love u....Beav
>
> Lillian wrote:
>
> > I truly believe that the sexual aspect of cancer has to be devastating to
> > all and certainly can lend to serious depression. I have no answers for
> > this. I keep searching the cyber hwy. for something with a lot of meat to
> > it in regards to this. I have a feeling everyone is afraid to talk about
> > one of the most natural God given gifts there is. I don't believe Doctors
> > for the most part forewarn patients; which increases the patients feelings
> > of aloneness;etc. This is a very serious subject. One day, I will find the
> > right site. luv, u, lillian
> >
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