You have just given away my game plan!!!! I went through a lot of guilt in
not doing just that, while he was so ill and in the hospital. I will not
repeat that again. I will give him all the info and opportunities available
to him and the decision will be his to make and I will abide by his wishes.
At least then I will know in my heart that he made an informed decision and
made his own choices. I just don't want any regrets for any of us!!!
sincerely
Paui
----- Original Message -----
From: <beav76@uswest.net>
To: <mol-cancer@lists.meds.com>
Sent: Monday, October 16, 2000 5:00 PM
Subject: Re: [MOL]Pauli
> Hi Pauli;
> If it were my dad and I am quite sure my dad would of been the same
way, I
> think he must either feel like he doesn't want to make a hassle for anyone
else
> or burdon you with his problems or maybe he feels like if the family knew
> everything they would make deceisions for him and he would loose control
of his
> situation. I think I would still investigate with his dr. and find out as
much
> as possible and if there is something that can be done let him know that
it was
> really no problem for you to do this and you were just letting him know
what
> other options might be able for him. Then he has time to think about what
he can
> do to help himself if he so chooses, but atleast you have done everything
you
> can and you know that he knows all about his health situation. Thought I
would
> jump in here and make a comment, hope you don't mind. Good luck with all
> this.... Your friend, Beav
>
> Pauli Franklin wrote:
>
> > Thanks for your concern Lillian!! I posted to Tonia before I got to
read
> > all of these!! Thanks for asking, I hope we are doing ok. Sometimes I
feel
> > like I am banging my head against the wall!! I don't know how hard to
push,
> > I am concerned that if I let my dad bury his head in the sand for too
long
> > he will end up in the same boat he was just in!!! How can I get through
to
> > him gently and lovingly without upseting him? Any suggestions? How do
I
> > deal with the Kid thing too????
> > I would greatly apprecate any input!!!
> > God Bless!!
> > Pauli
> > ----- Original Message -----
> > From: "Lillian" <firefly@islc.net>
> > To: <mol-cancer@lists.meds.com>
> > Sent: Saturday, October 14, 2000 8:12 PM
> > Subject: Re: [MOL]Pauli
> >
> > >
> > >
> > > I have been wondering where you and Tonya have been. How's your
father
> > > doing? Are you holding up all right? Your friend, lillian
> > >
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