Hi Pauli;
If it were my dad and I am quite sure my dad would of been the same way, I
think he must either feel like he doesn't want to make a hassle for anyone else
or burdon you with his problems or maybe he feels like if the family knew
everything they would make deceisions for him and he would loose control of his
situation. I think I would still investigate with his dr. and find out as much
as possible and if there is something that can be done let him know that it was
really no problem for you to do this and you were just letting him know what
other options might be able for him. Then he has time to think about what he can
do to help himself if he so chooses, but atleast you have done everything you
can and you know that he knows all about his health situation. Thought I would
jump in here and make a comment, hope you don't mind. Good luck with all
this.... Your friend, Beav
Pauli Franklin wrote:
> Thanks for your concern Lillian!! I posted to Tonia before I got to read
> all of these!! Thanks for asking, I hope we are doing ok. Sometimes I feel
> like I am banging my head against the wall!! I don't know how hard to push,
> I am concerned that if I let my dad bury his head in the sand for too long
> he will end up in the same boat he was just in!!! How can I get through to
> him gently and lovingly without upseting him? Any suggestions? How do I
> deal with the Kid thing too????
> I would greatly apprecate any input!!!
> God Bless!!
> Pauli
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> > I have been wondering where you and Tonya have been. How's your father
> > doing? Are you holding up all right? Your friend, lillian
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