Thanks for your kind words. When I called my mom with the news last week, she
told me as she always does, "God will give you no more than you can handle." I
told her she best tell Him, He is getting awful close!! I guess everything
happens for a reason, but I have yet to figure this one out. What reason is
there for people to be sick and in pain?? I know I'm supposed to be happy for
everything I have had in my life, but right now, I don't feel that happy. Today
is the first time I could even talk about my husband's illness without crying. I
guess that is progress. Now the fight begins. But reading all these other
emails makes me know that I am not alone, and CAN get through this.
Lots of love and prayers to you, your dad and family.
Gail
CCR417@aol.com wrote:
> In a message dated 09/16/2000 6:05:20 PM Eastern Daylight Time,
> <brexton@america.net>JohnO\@dns.inet911.com writes:
> > I know I being selfish,> but I'm not ready to be alone after nearly 34
> years together. Any help> I can get will be great. Thanks to you all.
>
> Hi (didn't get your name). Just wanted to say that I don't think there is
> *anything* selfish in your desire to have a loved one with you longer. My
> father is 77 and in cancer treatment; I am 48 and still not ready to give up
> "daddy". My stepmother lost her mother @ 101 years of age - and she wasn't
> ready to let her go either! I wish you the best in the coming battles you
> face, but you CAN win! My Dad has been in treatment for 2 yrs for "advanced"
> lung cancer and is doing very well! -chris
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