Hi Dusti. I just wanted to say that if a time comes when Mike wants to come
home don't worry about anything but what's in your own heart. If you chose
to give hime another chance, don't worry what other people say. Your friends
will stand beside you and support you in that decision as in all others. We
are all angry now because he hurt you so but who knows what drove him to
this? I think in some ways he deserves our pity more than our anger. Take
each day as it comes and don't worry about tomorrow until it becomes today,
okay?
Your friend,
Bridget
>From: "Barham, Dusti # IHTUL" <Dusti.Barham@tulsa.cistech.com>
>Reply-To: mol-cancer@lists.meds.com
>To: "'mol-cancer@lists.meds.com'" <mol-cancer@lists.meds.com>
>Subject: [MOL] Beav
>Date: Fri, 15 Sep 2000 14:02:26 -0500
>
>Thanks for your thoughts. Yeah, I am a glutton, I would do counseling but
>I
>think he is a little too caught up in the moment right now. Only time will
>tell. It is hard to believe that I am feeling such despair and his life is
>exciting, new, & different. I'm having a hard time believing it. Using my
>common sense though, I believe it won't be long before there is some type
>of
>reality check. I just hope this chick doesn't get pregnant or try and
>guilt
>Mike from coming to see Chance. I'll let you know how it progresses. Take
>care.
>
>Dusti
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: beav76@uswest.net [mailto:beav76@uswest.net]
> Sent: Friday, September 15, 2000 11:57 AM
> To: mol-cancer@lists.meds.com
> Subject: Re: [MOL] Dusti
>
> Hi Dusti;
> So sorry to hear the great amount of emotional pain you
>are going through. I
> pray for you to keep above the dark side of all this. It
>sounds to me like your
> lost husband needs some help. It seems obvious how lost he
>is in what he picked.
> Have you considered a thereapist for the 2 of you? If you
>are willing to put this
> behind you...Understanding if you don't, only you can make
>that decision.....your
> friend, Beav
>
> KathleenCorrigan@aol.com wrote:
>
> > Dear Dusti: I simply cannot believe this!!! That someone
>would do this to
> > you! It makes me sooo angry. You knew, didn't you, that
>my ex carried on an
> > affair the entire time I was going through treatment, and
>that I caught him
> > in bed with another woman just as I was coming out of it?
>This is different,
> > though. He and I had no children together, and I'm not
>the young lovely you
> > are. How could he do this? This woman actually left her
>child behind? What
> > are these people thinking?!!!! I am so terribly sorry,
>Dusti. Fortunately,
> > you are young, strong, brave, smart, and lovely. You'll
>do fine, although I
> > know that's hard to believe right now. He'll regret this
>-- I promise you.
> > My prayers are with you, dear -- as if you hadn't already
>gone through
> > enough! Wish I had a voodoo doll and knew what he looked
>like.
> >
> > Love, Kathy (Kathleen) in Idaho
> >
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