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Re: [MOL] Debate(s)



Bridget,
    How true, and to suffer with one that you don't need to be with, only takes or breaks you down. Yeah even my sisters say how come you got such a good guy when your such a brat....lol  I smile an say well GOD looked over that part of me, as most of his childern are...; )  love you my friend..  xo Dean
----- Original Message -----
From: Bridget Rambeau <bsbridget@hotmail.com>
To: <mol-cancer@lists.meds.com>
Sent: Friday, August 25, 2000 11:27 AM
Subject: Re: [MOL] Debate(s)

> I am truly happy for you, Dean. A little jealous maybe but still happy and
> only a little. LOL
> There are reasons for everything that happens to us and I trust that my life
> is following the course it was meant to. With or without a partner I am
> blessed, as there is so much love that surrounds me. I think the saddest
> thing in the world is a person devoid of love. To starve the soul is as
> destructive as starving the body. In my humble opinion that is.
> Your friend,
> Bridget
>
>
> >From: "michael c white" <THEBRATUSER@prodigy.net>
> >Reply-To: mol-cancer@lists.meds.com
> >To: <mol-cancer@lists.meds.com>
> >Subject: Re: [MOL] Debate(s)
> >Date: Fri, 25 Aug 2000 15:28:32 -0700
> >
> >Yes Bidget, We sure are! funny when you become friends with someone, an
> >over
> >the years you share so much, you think you know each other so very good,
> >but
> >then something like this comes up an every thing you thought you knoew goes
> >right out the door. Just because as you say "their humiliation". We have
> >such egos in stead of faith...I will stick to the faith, letting ego go by
> >the way side! I guess when you leave the husband finding up to GOD you
> >receive the man that is ment for you. The one that will not break your
> >heart, or hurt you in anyway!!!! I am blessed. Your friend. Dean (the one
> >with eyes wide open) lol
> >----- Original Message -----
> >From: Bridget Rambeau <bsbridget@hotmail.com>
> >To: <mol-cancer@lists.meds.com>
> >Sent: Friday, August 25, 2000 4:02 AM
> >Subject: Re: [MOL] Debate(s)
> >
> >
> > > How true Dean. I think that often the person knows, or at least
> >suspects,
> > > but prefers not to have to face it. Without proof they can hang on to
> >their
> > > life as it is and never acknowledge the affair. Once they're told,
> >though,
> > > their humiliation can no longer be hidden and, if they still choose to
> >do
> > > nothing, they often become the one who is scorned for "putting up with
> >it".
> > > I often ask my friends if they would prefer I tell them or not should
> >this
> > > happen (as it has on several occasions) and have been surprised by how
> >many
> > > have said no, they'd rather not be told. We are interesting creatures,
> > > aren't we?
> > > Your friend,
> > > Bridget
> > > >From: "michael c white" <THEBRATUSER@prodigy.net>
> > > >Reply-To: mol-cancer@lists.meds.com
> > > >To: <mol-cancer@lists.meds.com>
> > > >Subject: Re: [MOL] Debate(s)
> > > >Date: Thu, 24 Aug 2000 07:00:15 -0700
> > > >
> > > >Bridget,
> > > >
> > > >    See, that's the very reason for not having told my friend. Like I
> >said,
> > > >after working so long with women, most of the time they really don't
> >want
> > > >reconfirmed what they already know, an it is always the messenger that
> >they
> > > >like to hate, as if it were he/she, that has caused it all just by
> >telling
> > > >her/him what they already had suspected (or wouldn't have asked). I'm
> >not
> > > >sure why when given the truth, one tends to try an hide by putting
> >their
> > > >head in the sand, until they can no longer take the hurt.Hurt me once,
> > > >shame
> > > >on you, hurt me twice shame on me!!!!  xo Dean
> > > >----- Original Message -----
> > > >From: Bridget Rambeau <bsbridget@hotmail.com>
> > > >To: <mol-cancer@lists.meds.com>
> > > >Sent: Wednesday, August 23, 2000 10:15 AM
> > > >Subject: RE: [MOL] Debate(s)
> > > >
> > > >
> > > > > Just to provide an example of the opposite; a good friend of my ex's
> > > >begged
> > > > > him to tell her if her husband was running around. He was known for
> >this
> > > > > before they married and she'd just found out he'd had an affair
> >while
> > > >abroad
> > > > > for a year working. Both were well known professionals in a small
> >city
> > > >and
> > > > > she was worried about public awareness. My ex happened to be good
> > > >friends
> > > > > with both of them and while he had never volunteered the
> >information,
> >he
> > > > > didn't feel he should be obligated to lie. So he told her that he
> >had
> > > >seen
> > > > > him once with another woman in a local bar, being quite
> >affectionate.
> > > >She
> > > > > confronted her husband and left for a couple of weeks. Ended up,
> >they
> > > >got
> > > > > back together.
> > > > > The cheating friend never spoke to my ex again. The friend who had
> >asked
> > > >for
> > > > > the info. called and told him her husband insisted she do the same.
> >She
> > > >said
> > > > > she was sorry. He never heard from her again, even after she
> >divorced
> > > >her
> > > > > husband for yet another affair.
> > > > > I think she took advantage of their friendship by pressing the
> >issue.
> > > >It's
> > > > > one of those times when ignorance truly is bliss!
> > > > > Your friend,
> > > > > Bridget
> > > > >
> > > > > >From: "Barham, Dusti # IHTUL" <Dusti.Barham@tulsa.cistech.com>
> > > > > >Reply-To: mol-cancer@lists.meds.com
> > > > > >To: "'mol-cancer@lists.meds.com'" <mol-cancer@lists.meds.com>
> > > > > >Subject: RE: [MOL] Debate(s)
> > > > > >Date: Tue, 22 Aug 2000 16:27:28 -0500
> > > > > >
> > > > > >Very good point Lillian.
> > > > > >
> > > > > >  I would still assert that the person who is being cheated on has
> >the
> > > > > >right
> > > > > >to make that decision and cannot unless duly informed.
> > > > > >
> > > > > >I discovered my husband's fiddle player cheating on his fiance last
> > > >year.
> > > > > >After much angst, I decided that I could do no less than let her be
> >the
> > > >one
> > > > > >to decide if she wanted to invest herself in that.  I gave him a
> >week
> > > >to
> > > > > >tell her or I would.  He didn't, so I did.  Thankfully my husband
> > > >supported
> > > > > >me, my friend understood that I put her interests at heart and the
> > > >fiddle
> > > > > >player was just mad that he got caught.  A person is entitled to
> >their
> > > > > >dignity and cannot have that if everyone is too afraid to say
> >anything.
> > > > > >
> > > > > >Spiritedly,
> > > > > >Dusti
> > > > > >
> > > > > > -----Original Message-----
> > > > > > From: Lillian [mailto:firefly@islc.net]
> > > > > > Sent: Tuesday, August 22, 2000 7:15 PM
> > > > > > To: mol-cancer@lists.meds.com
> > > > > > Subject: Re: [MOL] Debate(s)
> > > > > >
> > > > > > Please realize that if you tell your friend that their
> > > > > >partner is cheating
> > > > > > on them:
> > > > > >
> > > > > > 1.  They may have already known; but choused to be silent.
> > > > > >
> > > > > > 2.  To save face, you may force them into an action of
> > > > > >regret.
> > > > > >
> > > > > >
> > > > > >
> > > > > >
> > > > >
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