Re: [MOL] Re: Men & women debate...Chris [01874] Medicine On Line


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Re: [MOL] Re: Men & women debate...Chris



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From: <CCR417@aol.com>
To: <mol-cancer@lists.meds.com>
Sent: Tuesday, August 22, 2000 2:05 PM
Subject: [MOL] Re: Men & women debate...


> I think all the psycho-babble about mens' sexual drives is just an updated
> version of the double standard.  Daughters were taught they must behave
> because grandparents didn't want their daughters bringing children home
for
> them to raise.  Sons didn't bring children home, so they were told that
"boys
> will be boys and have fun!"
>
> I don't think instinct has anything to do with our sexual drives - they
are
> as individual as we are; I believe it has to do with what we were TAUGHT
to
> be right and wrong, and that goes as far back as humanity does.  Both men
and
> women have bought the story line in the past and behaved accordingly.
That
> is why women can be our own worst enemies.  Too often we support the
belief
> that men can do what they please, but a girl gets a reputation and we
taught
> our daughters that.  It is not usually men, but women who are the first
ones
> to call another woman names like "slut" if she is free with her sexual
> bahavior.
>
> We are told that men are more visual (sexually and all ways) than women.
> HOGWASH!  Women are just as visual in the same areas, but we don't shout,
> yell, whistle, and TELL everyone about it.  Basically we ALL have the
> intellectual ability to choose our behavior, to choose to love, to
forgive,
> to understand, etc.  That applies to males and females.  Using our
"drives"
> as excuses for bad behavior and choices is a cop-out.  -chris
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