To read this breaks my heart.
The anguish, pain, and hurt, you all must be going through. I have no children,
however my nieces and nephews, are as if my own, so the feelings of this for a
child, tears me up inside, and makes me sick! I by nature am not a violent
person, but over this I know in my heart I could & would kill for a child.
From my mouths to GODs ears I
pray for you and your family, for as few scars as possible, and to heal this
child's trusting, now broken heart, from this horrendous ordealI am not a wise person, but to know that as bad as drug
dealers are, it is them behind bars, and yet a child molester goes free, as
usual the courts rape again for allowing him to walk free. I pray also that this
man be damned forever, to be with his own kind "satin", even that is not
punishment enough! We are tough, as Christians, to forgive our trespassers,
in cases involving children, I can not in truth do so. GOD be with
you, an yours Lillian..... xo Dean.
Please LORD hold this family, this sweet child in
your arms, an carry them/her through this, I ask this in JESUS name and for his
Now that things appear to be evening out, and it is a little
less painful to speak about coherently I am ready to share something with
you. It has nothing to do with cancer, but rather about a child.
Our granddaughter, a darling 10 year old who we discovered
has been sexually molested for more than a year by her step father.
The past two weeks have been horrendously hard on our entire
family unit. Not to mention this brave little girl who with pride and
dignity stood up to this hideous excuse of a human being.
She will have to be the one to stand up in court and
tell all the Horrific things that he has done to her, a child, who will never
be able to have a loving first sexual encounter. He has robbed her of
her own control of her body.He had taken her innocence away to replace it with
the most vile of vile.
We have been to court 3 times, gone for all kinds of
testing, the gathering of evidence, the conversations with the investigating
sheriff, and now the District Atty. Only to find out that a NO Bond
hearing was overturned to a $90,000 bond. This may sound like much
money; however it boils down to $9,000.00 This a man who had been
accused of the same thing with his own daughter is back free on the streets to
simply find the next child.
His betrayal of love to the mother and the pain she
feels for her child. All of them wondering if they will have a roof over
their heads They are terrified he will come for them, the nightmares and
Us as the grandparents who never dreamed this could happen
to one of their own, who along with everyone else was in a state of shock,
then horror and fortunately the fighting mode now.
It is still very evident in toady's society that the courts
are more concerned with the accused than the victim. It is
also evident that woman still stand in the eyes
of a court of law the lessor of the two.
The only good news's we have had is that she did not test
positive for aides or Hepatitis -C virus. She will be checked in for
months again to be on the safe side. Yet in a court of law he is not
considered a risk to the community. Give me a break.
While all of this was going on I was smack in the middle of
a lot of testing both for cancer and addison/cushings diseases At
first things were not going so hot; however slowly but surely I am now getting
some good news.
I ask for prayers for our daughter and her wonderful family,
for us the grand parents who so love them and for all our family who this has
touched. Thanking you in advance, I remain your loyal friend,