Re: [MOL] ANGER - response [01359] Medicine On Line


[Date Prev][Date Next][Thread Prev][Thread Next][Date Index][Thread Index]

Re: [MOL] ANGER - response



Thanks Chris, sure needed to hear that...xo  Dean
----- Original Message -----
From: <CCR417@aol.com>
To: <mol-cancer@lists.meds.com>
Sent: Tuesday, July 25, 2000 8:24 AM
Subject: Re: [MOL] ANGER - response


> You know what, Dean? When I was going through all this, I used to take all
I
> could and then I would let my father know how I felt and what I thought of
> his abuse.  Of course, he got angrier and we really had several
knock-down,
> drag-outs and I often left in tears. During this time I leaned very
heavily
> on our Kathy's shoulders (K. Corrigan).  At one point, she commented (not
> verbatim here), "I think your father needs to know your honest feelings.
> Maybe instead of hurting him, you're keeping his fighting spirit alive."
I
> even forwarded that to my sister to bolster her spirit too. And I felt the
> same, "...as long as he does well."  But my sister said, "Chris, if he
lives
> and we die, what good is that to him?!"  And that did it - the gloves came
> off where my father was concerned.  That's not to say that I didn't
measure
> my words and spoke carefully; but neither did I tiptoe after that.  He's
> cancer-free Dean, so maybe our kathy was right!   -crhis
> ------------------------------------------------------------------------
> This is an automatically-generated notice.  If you'd like to be removed
> from the mailing list, please visit the Medicine-On-Line Discussion Forum
> at <http://www.meds.com/con_faq.html>, or send an email message to:
> majordomo@lists.meds.com
> with the subject line blank and the body of the message containing the
line:
> unsubscribe mol-cancer your-email-address
> where the phrase your-email-address is replaced with your actual email
> address.
> ------------------------------------------------------------------------

------------------------------------------------------------------------
This is an automatically-generated notice.  If you'd like to be removed
from the mailing list, please visit the Medicine-On-Line Discussion Forum
at <http://www.meds.com/con_faq.html>, or send an email message to:
majordomo@lists.meds.com
with the subject line blank and the body of the message containing the line:
unsubscribe mol-cancer your-email-address
where the phrase your-email-address is replaced with your actual email
address.
------------------------------------------------------------------------