Re: [MOL] KATHY Q [00058] Medicine On Line


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Re: [MOL] KATHY Q



Well????? Did our Tommy get to go back to his regular room?  Your words on
Wendy were so beautiful, indeed she is a rare flower; but then I think they
were created for each other!  And your the best Aunti they could have, your
job is to be the best cheerleader in town friend; so you must take care of
yourself too.  You know I am always here for you, love, lillian


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----- Original Message -----
From: <Qksk@AOL.COM>
To: <mol-cancer@lists.meds.com>
Sent: Sunday, April 30, 2000 8:35 PM
Subject: Re: [MOL] KATHY Q./Back to Lil


> Thanks Lillian...  You have been such an inspiration to me.  Even though I
> get sledged (my term!) like everyone else when some new bit of news comes
our
> way, I take a deep breath and try to sort out what it is that I now need
to
> learn... LOL... I have been on such a learning curve!
>
> Tommy stayed stable today and the doc promised he could move back to a
> regular room by tonight.  I'm waiting to hear from Wendy that they have
moved
> him.  She's been camped out at the hospital since Thursday.  What an
amazing
> woman she is.  At the ripe old age of 23, she is wiser than many women I
> know.  I sit in the room with her and Tommy and see their gentle touching
and
> exchanges and just hope I can find such a relationship in my life.
>
> She takes better care of him in so many important ways than any nurse or
> doctor who has worked on his behalf.  I don't mean the nurses and docs
aren't
> great, but their focus is specialized, where she is looking out for ALL of
> Tommy, not just his medical condition.
>
> I know there has been a lot of talk in the past few days about those who
have
> cancer and those who care for them.  But the line blurs so often it's hard
to
> say what should happen.  When Tommy got the news of his relapse, although
he
> very much wanted one of his uncles to come and see him, he told his uncle
to
> leave his phony girlfriend at home.  He had enough to cope with just
getting
> used to this new news and didn't want to have to deal with her fake
> condolences.  Bravo for Tommy.  But over time, I know he will tollerate
his
> uncle's girlfriend again.  But he knew when to draw the line and what was
> going to be good for him right now.
>
> With Kathy in Boise, I'm thinking that that's what was going on... When
Steve
> held back initially after her dx, it hurt her greatly.  But she is a
> wonderful and corageous woman who constantly rethinks her circumstances
and
> doesn't have to take a position and then be stuck with it right or
wrong...
>
> So... Kathy C... I hope things work out with Steve and he just had an
> emotional hiccup, but if it turns out he's not made of the right stuff,
> you'll hear from me and all of your friends here that you deserve much
better.
>
> And Lil,  you have kept me afloat more than you can ever know.  Thank
you...
>
> Much love,   Kathy Q
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