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RE: [MOL] Kathy C



OK......June

> -----Original Message-----
> From:	Kathy Corrigan [SMTP:kcorrigan@chgw.com]
> Sent:	Wednesday, November 03, 1999 5:28 PM
> To:	'mol-cancer@lists.meds.com'
> Subject:	RE: [MOL] Kathy C
> 
> I don't mind at all, June.  He is ten years younger than I am -- tall,
> strong, and good looking.  He pursued me and convinced me he couldn't
> live
> without me.  I liked him well enough -- I just wasn't in love.  He
> knew it
> and said he didn't care -- that I would learn to love him.  I didn't.
> It
> was a mistake -- mine and his, but his treatment of me was his.  Kath
> 
> -----Original Message-----
> From: owner-mol-cancer@lists.meds.com
> [mailto:owner-mol-cancer@lists.meds.com]On Behalf Of Argila, June
> Sent: Wednesday, November 03, 1999 3:02 PM
> To: 'mol-cancer@lists.meds.com'
> Subject: RE: [MOL] Kathy C
> 
> 
> You said you weren't in love for 30 years, why did you marry him if
> you
> don't mind my asking.
> 
> > -----Original Message-----
> > From:	Kathy Corrigan [SMTP:kcorrigan@chgw.com]
> > Sent:	Wednesday, November 03, 1999 4:13 PM
> > To:	'mol-cancer@lists.meds.com'
> > Subject:	RE: [MOL] Kathy C
> > 
> > Dear June:  In 1993 -- the year I was braindead.  Kath
> > 
> > -----Original Message-----
> > From: owner-mol-cancer@lists.meds.com
> > [mailto:owner-mol-cancer@lists.meds.com]On Behalf Of Argila, June
> > Sent: Wednesday, November 03, 1999 1:39 PM
> > To: 'mol-cancer@lists.meds.com'
> > Subject: RE: [MOL] Kathy C
> > 
> > 
> > Kathy:  What year did you marry your last husband?  Curious June
> > 
> > > -----Original Message-----
> > > From:	Barham, Dusti # IHTUL
> > [SMTP:Dusti.Barham@tulsa.cistech.com]
> > > Sent:	Wednesday, November 03, 1999 3:32 PM
> > > To:	'mol-cancer@lists.meds.com'
> > > Subject:	[MOL] Kathy C
> > > 
> > > Kathy,
> > > 
> > > Your ex-husband never deserved you in the first place.  You sound
> > like
> > > you
> > > have come along way baby.  I admire your spirit.
> > > 
> > > Dusti
> > > 
> > > > ----------
> > > > From: 	Kathy Corrigan[SMTP:kcorrigan@chgw.com]
> > > > Reply To: 	mol-cancer@lists.meds.com
> > > > Sent: 	Wednesday, November 03, 1999 2:18 PM
> > > > To: 	'mol-cancer@lists.meds.com'
> > > > Subject: 	RE: [MOL] Thanks Dusti
> > > > 
> > > > Dear Andrea:  My name is Kathy Corrigan, and I am a two year
> small
> > > cell
> > > > lung
> > > > cancer survivor.  I don't get online much anymore, as life has
> > > become a
> > > > little more complicated for me than it was -- all in a good way.
> > I
> > > do
> > > > agree
> > > > with you, though.  This disease HAS hurt so many good people!
> On
> > > the
> > > > other
> > > > hand, it has brought many good people together, and has added
> > > strength and
> > > > a
> > > > new dimension to many lives.  I hope this makes some sense to
> you.
> > > Before
> > > > I
> > > > became ill, I was in sort of a coccoon.  I was unhappy in my
> > > marriage, but
> > > > not willing to move -- to do anything about it.  I was sort of
> > > plodding
> > > > along, not really dealing with anything, and not really living
> at
> > > all.
> > > > When
> > > > I received the diagnosis -- which was fairly grim -- I sunk into
> a
> > > deep
> > > > depression initially.  Not only that, but the chemo made me
> > horribly
> > > sick
> > > > --
> > > > worse than anything I had ever imagined.  Strangely, though,
> after
> > > about
> > > > two
> > > > chemo treatments, things began to change.  I was still very
> sick,
> > > but
> > > > somehow I knew I was going to get well -- I just knew it -- and
> I
> > > made up
> > > > my
> > > > mind that I wasn't going to waste any more of my life -- ever
> > > again!!!  My
> > > > husband was unfaithful to me during my treatments.  I guess he
> > > didn't
> > > > appreciate a bald wife.  He also drank to excess -- constantly.
> > > > Eventually,
> > > > I caught him in the "act," and booted him out.  We're divorced
> now
> > > and my
> > > > younger brother lives with me in my sweet, little house with all
> > my
> > > > neurotic
> > > > pets, plants, antiques, etc.  I love my life now.  I appreciate
> my
> > > > friends.
> > > > My family is even dearer to me than before, and life is
> certainly
> > > more
> > > > precious.  I have also fallen in love for the first time in over
> > > thirty
> > > > years.  I'm in my mid-fifties, but I'm not ready to cash it in
> --
> > > not yet.
> > > > I feel great physically, even though I had a double bypass in
> June
> > > -- the
> > > > result of radiation burns.  I recovered from that very quickly.
> I
> > > work
> > > > full
> > > > time as a paralegal in a law firm, and I love my job.  Life is
> > good.
> > > The
> > > > bad stuff will pass -- I promise you!  If I can do anything at
> all
> > > to help
> > > > you through your treatment, please let me know.  I understand --
> > all
> > > of
> > > > it.
> > > > Your friend, Kathy in Boise
> > > > 
> > > > -----Original Message-----
> > > > From: owner-mol-cancer@lists.meds.com
> > > > [mailto:owner-mol-cancer@lists.meds.com]On Behalf Of Barham,
> Dusti
> > #
> > > > IHTUL
> > > > Sent: Wednesday, November 03, 1999 12:52 PM
> > > > To: 'mol-cancer@lists.meds.com'
> > > > Subject: RE: [MOL] Thanks Dusti
> > > > 
> > > > 
> > > > Thanks Andrea, that was a nice letter.  I also wanted to say
> that
> > > before
> > > > all
> > > > of this, I don't think I was a 'deeply' religious person either.
> > > I've
> > > > read
> > > > that God uses 'suffering' as a way to pull people back to him
> and
> > > maybe
> > > > that's what happened to me.  Anyway, I hope you continue to stay
> > on
> > > this
> > > > forum for a while and hopefully we can deal with all of this
> > > together.
> > > > 
> > > > Regards
> > > > 
> > > > Dusti
> > > > 
> > > > > ----------
> > > > > From: 	Andrea
> Deschenes[SMTP:andreadeschenes@hotmail.com]
> > > > > Reply To: 	mol-cancer@lists.meds.com
> > > > > Sent: 	Wednesday, November 03, 1999 1:25 PM
> > > > > To: 	mol-cancer@lists.meds.com
> > > > > Subject: 	Re: [MOL] Thanks Dusti
> > > > > 
> > > > > Dusti,
> > > > > 
> > > > > Thanks for telling me your story.  I do feel alone all the
> time
> > > but I
> > > > > agree 
> > > > > with you--this forum really does help.  At first when I
> started
> > > reading
> > > > > all 
> > > > > theses stories (of others just like me) trying to cope, I
> would
> > > cry.  I
> > > > > felt 
> > > > > so bad that this disease has hurt so many people.  Now, I find
> I
> > > still
> > > > > well 
> > > > > up with tears, however, I learn from the things being shared.
> > > > > 
> > > > > I love that people here are not just "other people" but
> friends
> > > who
> > > > offer 
> > > > > support.  I greatly appreciate yours.
> > > > > 
> > > > > I wanted to tell you that I too, have started praying.  I'm
> not
> > a
> > > deeply
> > > > 
> > > > > religious person, but I know someone is up there looking down
> > upon
> > > me.
> > > > > 
> > > > > I hope things are not too rough for you at home (with such a
> > full
> > > > house), 
> > > > > and I wish you all the luck.
> > > > > 
> > > > > Thanks again and take care,
> > > > > Andrea
> > > > > 
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