I signed off the list for a while. I know
several other people did too. I signed back on, I guess in part, out of
curiosity, and in part, out of dissatisfaction with what else is on the web that
purports to be for similar things to what I felt, used to go on
here.
Everything was so quiet for a long while, that I wrote
to inquire whether there was anyone left on the list. I saw that 86 people
were still on the list and was trying to get someone to talk.
I am not feeling as upset as I was, but I would like to see
certain things happen. I think Lil and Nancy owe everyone an apology for
sending mail privately to others, which attempted to make each other look
bad. I also got a post which was sent privately by lil to someone
else...from that person to Nanc and then to me. I think sending other
peoples' private correspondence with you or anybody else, ought to be frowned
on.
I know I've been away, and perhaps have missed out on some
discussion, but Nanc, if you owe Nisi some money, I would like to know
that it is in the mail--however small the amount may be. I sent you a
present because Don was sick again and I wanted to cheer you up. I sent
Kathy some flowers when she was in the hospital because I wanted to cheer her
up. I never asked anyone for any money even though I assumed that everyone
on the list shared my wishes. (And that was not because I have a lot of
money.)
Nancy, I think you owe us a special apology for trying to hold
everyone hostage about the web page. I think you should put it back up and
write to at least 3 people about how you do it, and how to maintain
it.
Lillian, you can't say not to talk about these things.
You already have talked about these things to Nancy and I presume to Nisi.
You made a decision not to tell the rest of us...you kind of made a decision---I
am the adult and you guys are the kids...but we are not kids.
Well, this is what I think, should be done. If it has
already been done, I'd appreciate getting sent a copy of the
post.
Hoping to come back, and see clarified relationships between a
group of adults, I am,
