Re: [MOL] Gill ! for lillian [00941] Medicine On Line


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Re: [MOL] Gill ! for lillian



Gill, this is not good, is there anyway she could come to your home?  Do you
have visiting nurses over there?  Do you have someone who could come in for
a few hour's to help you out?  Sometimes hospitals can make people sick and
over here some hospitals don't even insist that you eat, don't help with a
shower or give a sponge bath, let alone getting your teeth done.  I am
asking you to tell me more about your situation and perhaps I can point you
into some direction to help you out.  She needs fresh air, touched with a
tinge of sun, to hear the birds and smell the flowers......write me as soon
as you can so I can get busy and put my thinking cap on.  Do you work?  How
many in your household, young children?  Extra bedroom, these are the things
I need to know to think just for our Gill and Carol.  Love you, lillian



----- Original Message -----
From: <GILLIAN52@AOL.COM>
To: <mol-cancer@lists.meds.com>
Sent: Sunday, August 22, 1999 8:39 AM
Subject: Re: [MOL] Gill ! for lillian


> Hi friend
>
> Carole is not doing too well at the moment, she is keeping upset because
she
> can't come home and there is still no room in the local hospice.  I don't
> know if she has had another brain bleed or whether she has just given up,
she
> is making no attempt to eat or do anything for herself now and she just
seems
> to stare at you, I don't even know if she can see me properly as far as
the
> hospital is concerned, they have done the treatment and there is nothing
else
> they can do but they don't supply physiotherapy or any stimulation and
Carole
> is beginning to talk even less, if it wasn't for the fact that I make her
I
> don't think she'd bother at all.  I pray all the time, I go to sleep
thinking
> of her and wake up in the early hours still thinking of her.  I don't know
> what is going on in her mind and that troubles me I would love her to come
> home until there is room in the hospice but that is her husband's decision
to
> take.  Thank you for being there.
> Love Gill
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