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Re: [MOL] From Chris/Hi Chris



I am so happy to hear about you and so sad at the news.  You have had a
tough haul with your father from the git-go.  I am truly sorry that things
have not improved.  It is good that Virginia removed herself for her health
sake and I think that the same applies for you.  As much as you want to help
with the heart of a loving daughter, your dad is just not ready/able to
receive that love right now.

I hope that your tears have dried and that you are making peace with
yourself.  You did what you could and now you will have to sit back and wait
to see what the next move will be.  It is in his court.

I hope that you can spend your time thinking of the good of your dad, from
before he changed.  I will keep you both lifted in prayer.   God bless you
and many hugs.. Carla
-----Original Message-----
From: CCR0417@AOL.COM <CCR0417@AOL.COM>
To: mol-cancer@lists.meds.com <mol-cancer@lists.meds.com>
Date: Saturday, May 29, 1999 6:06 PM
Subject: [MOL] From Chris


> Well here it is.  Virginia came home; still extremely weak.  Can't
>pick up even a 1/2 gal carton of milk.
> I told her to remind my son on his next visit to cut the grass that
>he should also install their air conditioner.  My father exploded in a
tirade
>of comments such as, "...I'm not an invalid...that's my responsibility, not
>yours..." then he mentioned a complaint my grandmother (who is dead 10
years)
>made to him about me implying that I was a slut when she lived with me
>(totally untrue)...and it ended by my sister slamming the door and shaking
>the wall, my father telling us to leave and NEVER COME BACK!  Virginia
cried,
>asked me to please stay, to which I responded, "I can't; this isn't my
>house!"  Needless to say, I've been crying since then.  I am home - and
>disowned.  Virginia is going to leave to stay with a friend of hers during
>the remainder of her recooperation process; the doctor warned her, "...you
>must be careful. There is no such thing as a 2nd chance here!"
>
>-chris
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