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Dear Frank: Did you read my message about my dear friend, Art Atwell? I just met with his wife about his probate. She is going to continue his cancer support group, because that was Art's wish, and I'm going to help her. It was his belief that a joyful attitude and love of life were the most important weapons we have in this fight. He never lost either one, even though he eventually lost his fight, too. I don't think he ever gave up. He had time to spread his love and enthusiasm to hundreds of other people. My point is, Frank -- I can't bear to see you give up like this! I agree with the others. Get your bod to a doctor and get some antidepressants. I think most of us who are cancer patients take them, or have taken them. They work wonders. And for heavens sake -- get in the shower and change your clothes -- in that order. Eat some good food and enjoy your family. You're probably breaking their hearts right now. You're probably right, Frank -- the cancer probably will kill you and mine will probably kill me eventually, but not today! Write me back and tell me you're going to do all this stuff -- right now! Love, Kathy
-----Original Message-----
From: owner-mol-cancer@lists.meds.com
[mailto:owner-mol-cancer@lists.meds.com]On Behalf Of Argila, June
Sent: Monday, May 17, 1999 1:18 PM
To: 'mol-cancer@lists.meds.com'
Subject: RE: [MOL] Mary, Martha, Doris, etc. I have concerns for you!-
Frank
Hi Frank: This is June....Candy bars will make your depression worse.
Smile I know you don't want to give them up. Seriously, you told me you
were going to get me some info on NHL Center Stage IIIB. Concentrate on
that for God's sake. You can die anytime, meanwhile you have work to do.
Email me. Your friend June
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Stuart Scott Harth [SMTP:charth@bellsouth.net]
> Sent: Saturday, May 15, 1999 3:41 AM
> To: mol-cancer@lists.meds.com
> Subject: Re: [MOL] Mary, Martha, Doris, etc. I have concerns for you!
>
> Dear Frank:
> My heart goes out to you but it looks like what you are fighting is not
> the cancer but a major case of major depression - you need to take a bath,
> change your clothes, get a decent meal and get yourself to a doctor to
> prescribe an anti-depressant for you. You must not give up and sit there
> feeling totally sorry for yourself....where is your family ? Your family
> on line loves you too much to see you just sit back and give up...please
> don't do that....force yourself to get out of the house and get some help
> to get rid of that overwhelming depression......please. Who has your
> phone # on line ??? Please do something Frank....we are all praying for
> you and love you, but can't do a thing for you if you're not willing to
> help yourself a little ----- life is to precious to just toss away and you
> are too loved by too many to just give up....Please post and tell us that
> you have gotten up and taken a shower and gone out for a nice big healthy
> meal if it's too much effort to cook for yourself and gone to the doctor
> or emergency room for some help.....please. I am lifting you in prayer
> and all the positive vibes I can muster are headed your way. Love and
> anxious to hear some more positive words from you dear friend - Cori.
>
> Frank Cromie wrote:
>
> And don,t forget me Lillian.I have all but given up my fight to
> stay alive.I know for sure my cancer is going to kill me,so why fight?I
> don,t eat,except junk food.I haven,t taken a bath in over a week,I haven,t
> changed my cloths in days.I haven,t left my computer in over a week.I
> don,t go any where,I don,t visit my family or go to church.To me life is
> just to difficult,so why fight it.I have cancelled all my doctor
> visits,and have no plans in going.So,I will be on line from time to
> time,but it will not be the same..Love Frank
>
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: Lillian <mailto:firefly@islc.net>
> To: mol- <mailto:mol-cancer@lists.meds.com>
> Sent: Saturday, May 15, 1999 12:30 AM
> Subject: [MOL] Mary, Martha, Doris, etc. I have concerns for
> you!
> I am growing concern about some of our wonderful Molers.
> No word from them. Mary, Martha, Doris; etc. you know who you are, can
> you send us a hi and let us know if you are okay and if you are not, can
> we do something for you? Love you, lillian
>
>
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