Well dear friend, I see one of two choices for you. You can either get off the
pity pot or stop making love; which is it? LOL! Are they giving your Angelo
anything for his nausea? You know Marty has a really good recipe that I bet you
could talk him into sharing with you..... You know emotions are a funny thing,
everyone is different and while under meds. emotions are not the same as under
normal circumstances. Mary, have you visited any of the care givers sites? I
know how hard it is for you and you know even if I joke, my heart goes out to
you. Always feel you can vent here and that we all do truly understand just how
you are feeling friend. Love, Lillian
Mary Furfaro wrote:
> Hi everyone,
>
> Angelo is not doing as well as he normally does after chemo this time.
> Very nausiated. Also he is very emotional, crying a little even,
> which he never does. Is this normal after chemo? I have heard that
> chemo can make you emotional. Not that he doesn't have a perfectly
> good reason to be even without the chemo. It just isn't like him.
> He's always the one picking up my spirits. I feel so guilty when I
> cry on his shoulder. I need to be strong for him and our four kids
> but sometimes its just too much. Like when we make love, I bawl my
> head off afterwards. I know that really bothers Angelo but I can't
> seem to help myself. Our relationship is one our of a fairy tale
> and it scares the hell out of me to think that I might lose him.
>
> O.K. Lil, I know, I'm on the Pitty Pot again. Seems like I spend
> a lot of time there. Sorry. Life is not fair!!
>
> God Bless you all for being here for us.
> Mary
>
> >
> > Vent away gal!! I think you are becoming aware that you can learn
> > more than a doctor who is apparently unwilling to research and keep an
> > open mind...!! Stay on your toes with them, but I know that you need
> > to defer to Angelo's wishes right now.... I praise you for balancing
> > both... God Bless you and we will all pray that the results for him
> > are good after chemo... With love, Carla
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