Dear Betsy: Thank you for informing us of your dear mother. I can well emagine
being her primary caregiver the sense of loss you are feeling. For you it is a
double whammy, it was your mother to whom you were so devoted too and then your
being her caregiver. And it's okay to feet a bit selfish right now; you let her
go as she wanted and in the end that is what will be carried with you the rest
of your life. Grief is very important in the healing process and darn give your
self time to let it all out. My prayers, my love walk beside you during your
pain. Love, lillian
BetsyEMT@aol.com wrote:
> I know that I don't post very often, but I have gotten so much support just
> from reading the conversations. I just wanted to let the list know that my
> mom (Elin) passed away tonight at 6 PM. She was at home with her family
> surrounding her, which is what she wanted. I know that it is better for her
> to be out of pain and suffering, but I am feeling pretty selfish right now,
> and I want my mom here with ME!!! For the past several years my entire life
> has revolved around this remarkable woman, she defined who I was. I cannot
> begin to imagine a life without her. I don't know what else to say.... I
> expect her to call me and tell me to get her something...
>
> If you would keep my family in your prayers I would really appreciate it.
>
> Thanks,
> Betsy
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